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But you learned when you were three — with the whole “monsters under the bed” thing — that some fears are imaginary. But remember that you can’t hide forever and nobody is perfect. Say, you thought you would be with a creative person, or you assumed you were strictly partial to blondes, or you had in your mind that you were only attracted to Kal Penn-lookalikes after seeing I’m not saying to ignore your relationship niggles. I know a few people who have had terrible tragedies in their families and felt this invisible pull to defend and dedicate themselves completely to their families until the end of time.Here are 12 ways fear interferes with love, and why you should kick it to the curb (and say yes to that relationship). Those cold-hearted a-holes.) Doesn’t that make you feel better? But ask yourself: do you want to be alone for the rest of your life? Your new boyfriend/girlfriend is not perfect, either. Love never works perfectly all the time, but that doesn’t mean it’s not the best thing you will ever experience — the bad and the good makes that so. I’m saying you should explore them really, really closely. I don’t know what that is like and I don’t want to pretend to, but I do know this: your family members are going to go out and finding relationships for themselves, or they already have. Your family will still be there for you, and they will be happy for you.But if you are afraid to enter a relationship because you are afraid of getting hurt, you are both a cliche and destined to go nowhere. But don’t make that an excuse for breaking it off if you think it can succeed and make you happy, because it might even make your relationship better.

Sometimes you might feel like you’re desperate to be in a relationship…until the possibility is right in front of you. I also never thought I would find a guy my family approved of, so I sort of let being in a relationship become, like, my 40th priority.

(It’s like when you agree to go skydiving with a friend — then you see them jump out of the plane and you think, “No way am I doing that! ”) When trying to find love, often fear is the one, huge thing standing in the way. But if you are unsure, and there is someone in your life who you are interested in exploring a relationship with, and they are standing there with their arms open to you, and they are willing to help you out of your comfort zone into a new zone of possible relationship awesomeness, then for God’s sake, let them. You might think the only reason you seem desirable to anyone is because they don’t know you that well — because you have managed to put the best version of yourself on display — something you can’t necessarily do when you throw yourself into a honest relationship. Sometimes we look for someone in particular for weird reasons. I know that people do this with their parents and siblings.

I'm sick of swiping right and wasting my precious time on people who bring no value to my life.

I'm tired of biting my nails before first dates and wondering if I'll get a text back.

The thing is I'm not afraid of being single; I'm afraid of dating.

The thing that makes breaking up so daunting is it must inevitably lead to going on dates, putting yourself out there and being vulnerable again.Where the guy looks nothing like his profile picture and plans what you will do on every single subsequent date… All it takes is one mean comment on a date and it can put you off dating for ages.My favorite bad date story (favorite because you have to laugh): when a guy gave me a hug hello and said immediately, “Whoa, you’re soooooooo short! Meeting someone new means needing to explain stuff about yourself and your life: whether you love your career or dream of something else, if you’re close with your family, if you’re generally happy with your situation.I'm also getting attention from the opposite sex but I have no idea what to do with them. Took his sorry butt to the court house and said Here you have him! Dating whether from a past with an abusive ex or not is another journey in itself for each of us. Lol Been almost a year for me with the same person. Taking it day by day, if it turns out it wasn’t meant to work out I’ll have no regrets.Right now there is a man that I am attracted to but when I see him I get scared. An effort was made, things learned, and new joy was found.I have been taking care of myself, losing weight, etc. He has never said one unkind word, never have I felt any kind of threat from him. I am so sorry I didn't leave sooner but you have to muster up the courage. I did find out that even though I had spent those 3 years happy and healthy that it isn’t until you add someone else to your life that you start to notice your baggage, big or small. I also kept a watchful eye on the one who I was dating and pretty sure would have ran at the first sign of trouble, (probably still would) but that isn’t necessarily all bad.

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